Oh what great vulnerability we face when we join in marriage! What risk!
We cannot make anyone love us. We cannot control every outcome. We can only do what we know to be right and keep our heart soft. We must approach the altar of covenant with sobriety and trepidation tempering the infatuation and passion that flow so easily on that day.
Men, I've seen it in your faces. An element of confusion mixed with moments of suffocating helplessness. You don't want to expose your girl, but you also aren't sure how to ask if this is just what her new normal is. I know it could be awkward for me to open up this conversation with you in person, but I hope my perspective can be of some assistance to you here in the safety of the web press.